Nothing in life comes easy. Everything takes intense amounts of work. Especially confidence.
To build confidence it takes practice every single day. Until it comes naturally, but until then
A step towards loving yourself goes a long way. Loving yourself unconditionally. Even during the triumphs. Find yourself beautiful even when you feel ugly. Love yourself enough to push you're organs out of bed even when you have no intention to get up. Love yourself enough to get what you want.
As soon as you love yourself you build the confidence to not let anyone tell you how you should be.
You love yourself enough to get rid of all the negative things in you're life. The windows, & the doors become wide open. Everything becomes clear to what you need to do.
You start to seek different ways to accomplish what you want. Nothing is only black and white anymore, you see different perspectives. Nothing becomes impossible. You see an entirely different light, nothings dark or empty. Then, when the day is over you notice the change & intend to seek more of this energy the next day.
Everything changes, you want to be around people that bring you out of who you were, a flower that blossoms into a garden. The people become the water. You're actions become the sun. & the seed is no longer.
You confide in yourself to know what will help you grow
You're work is no longer work it becomes a passion, you have the confidence to tell someone " this is what I can do for you"
You know the difference between being confident in yourself and being cocky. You seek answers and you don't know everything but you are willing to learn
You know that learning helps you grow and love yourself even more for putting the extra effort to becoming a better version of yourself
After all the hard work, all the effort, the trials and triumphs
The sun will set
& it all comes in naturally
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